Monday, January 31, 2011

Part 7: How to Create a Positive Thought Process

Part 7: How to Create a Positive Thought Process

The #2 Most UseLESS Tip for Improving Self-Esteem

2.       Think Positively—Always expect the best and it’s likely to happen.  Keeping a positive attitude and deciding what to do next is most important.

#2 Most UseFUL Tip for Improving Self-Esteem:
Use Truth to Replace Negative Thoughts with Positive Ones

How many times has someone said to you, “just be positive” ?

I believe this is another useless tip for building self-esteem.  Why? Because thinking positively and optimistically, for someone who isn’t inclined or practiced in that thought pattern, is the outcome of hard self- work…not the work itself.  You don’t start there, you have to get there.

It is true that optimism is a key component of success.  But it’s not that easy as just thinking positively once and then poof, you’re thinking and believing in a positive outcome. Thinking positively and believing positively are two very different things.  It takes some time and work to imprint a new, positive thought in one’s subconscious.  It takes consciously thinking something positive over and over again until it becomes a TRUE belief.  

This isn’t always easy. Why? Because the new positive thought is trying to get traction up against a well-established negative thought pattern that is a whole lot stronger.  Remember, you’ve been carrying your existing thoughts and behaviors around with you for most of your life.  New thoughts and behaviors need to start with new beliefs.  You can start taking steps today, but real transformation takes time and practice. 

Once a new positive and healthy thought pattern takes root, it can grow to overshadow and erode the negative thoughts of the past.  When that happens, you will be glad you did the work. Earth will look like a new planet and you will feel like a new person.

 Thinking positively is only powerful when you believe positively too! And again, it always starts with the question, “What is true?”

Coming next, Part 8: Identifying Truth to Create a Positive Thought Process

To your TRUE success!


Kathleen Aston
Founder & Life-Fulfillment Strategist

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  1. can I really change my life? I feel so negative.. I think it has to do with my horoscope sign.. I'm a pisces.. I tend to be really negative. I want to be positive but I always doubt positive "thinking" positive affirmations.

  2. I think I know how... yet, we all have our different Ways of achieving the apex, the summit of existence. Lemme tella youse how I found Christ the King...

    If I'm the sower, we plant the Seed; if I'm an artist, we RITE the symphonies heard Upstairs ☆IF☆ you accept His lead withe orchestra...

    Wanna find-out the fax, Jak, in a wurld fulla the 'power of cowards'? Wanna wiseabove to help a 'Plethora Of Wurdz' [POW!] which are look'n for a new home in thy novelty??

    Q: But [gulp] can anyone tell me the difference between K2 plus IQ? A: Nthn. In Heaven, we gitt'm both for eternity HeeHee Need a few more thots, ideers, wild wurdz (whoa, Nelly! easy, girl!) or ironclad iconoclasms?

    VERBUM SAT SAPIENTI (Latin: words to [the] wise): As an ex-writer of the sassy, savvy, schizophenia we all go thro in this lifelong demise, I just wanna help U.S. git past the ping-pong-politics, the whorizontal more!ass! we're in...

    "This finite existence is only a test, son," God Almighty told me in my coma. "Far beyond thy earthly tempest is where you'll find tangible, corpulent eloquence". Lemme tella youse without d'New Joisey accent...

    I actually saw Seventh-Heaven when we died: you couldn't GET!! any moe curly, party-hardy-endorphins, low-hanging-fruit of the Celestial Paradise, extravagantly-surplus-lush Upstairs (aww! baby kitties, too!!) when my o-so-beautifull, brilliant, bombastic girly passed-away due to those wry, sardonic satires...

    "Those who are wise will shine as brightly as the expanse of the Heavens, and those who have instructed many in uprightousness as bright as stars for all eternity" -Daniel 12:3, NJB

    Here's also what the prolific, exquisite GODy sed: 'the more you shall honor Me, the more I shall bless you' -the Infant Jesus of Prague.

    Go gitt'm, girl. You're incredible. See you Upstairs. I won't be joining'm in the nasty #@!! Abyss where Isis prowls
    PS Need summore unique, uncivilized, useless names? Lemme gonna gitcha started, brudda:

    Oak Woods, Franky Sparks, Athena Noble, Autumn Rose, Faith Bishop, Dolly Martin, Willow Rhodes, Cocoa Major, Roman Stone, Bullwark Burnhart, Magnus Wilde, Kardiak Arrest, Will Wright, Goldy Silvers, Penelope Summers, Sophie Sharp, Violet Snow, Lizzy Roach, BoxxaRoxx, Aunty Dotey, Romero Stark, Zacharia Neptooh, Mercurio Morrissey, Fritz & Felix Franz, Victor Payne, Isabella Silverstein, Mercedes Kennedy, Redding Rust, Phoenix Martini, Ivy Squire, Sauer Wolfe, Yankee Cooky, -blessed b9... (mixNmatch)

    God blessa youse
    -Fr. Sarducci, ol SNL