Monday, January 31, 2011
Next, Part 10: How to Identify Low Self-Esteem
People with low self-esteem can exhibit numerous traits, but the most common are unwillingness to assume responsibilities or take on challenges, difficulty making decisions, less social conformity, lack of self-confidence, overly conscious about their outward image, prone to emotional confusion, tendencies to blame themselves or others for everything, depression, anxiety, self-depreciation, overly critical of others and more.
2. Take or give a compliment.
3. Focus on doing more of what you do well.
4. Set small challenges for yourself and accomplish them.
5. Keep a journal and identify your thoughts and beliefs. Don’t judge them. Just note them.
6. Focus on progress. Every morning, write down all you did well or accomplished the day before.
7. Identify skills you would like to learn that would help you feel more confident.
8. Do something good for yourself.
9. Learn how to say, “no” nicely.
10. Seek support in overcoming your low self-esteem and building your confidence in areas that need work.
These are baby steps. But they are a start to a new beginning.
Low self-esteem does not mean you are weak. It only means you were fed a lot of lies somewhere back in time that you accepted as truth. Most likely these were hammered home during the time in your cognitive development when what adults told you and showed you were indisputable.
But now we are grown. We can form our own ideas of ourselves based on what we know to be true about ourselves. Because no one knows us as well as we know ourselves.
Next, Part 11: The Role of Perfectionism in Anxiety and Self-Esteem
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